Acceptance

I just heard on TV... Never let anybody make you feel you don't deserve what you want.
Is it somebody else or is it just us that makes us feel the way we actually feel ...
or is it that there is some unknown force that acts upon us to make us feel the way we do..
I guess the momment we start interacting with one another we also have our senses running with us that may be evident or not but their effect is very inherent.. this should obviously lead to the fact that we are all bound by some external force that makes it's presence felt with the instances that we experience...

well why do we want something. is it our love towards the thing that we want or is it the love towards us and making us to feel better by haveing that something.

if it is the former it is okay but if it is the latter than it is always us an not anybody else. we decide that we want somethign and start going after it and eventually there can be two results one is to have it and the other is not to have it...
if we are just having it for the sake of it then it doesn't make any sense the momment you get it.. but if it is for us (the feeling of getting)... this can go on for sometime and now just like any other addiction .. you start wanting more.

who am I bluffing ... it is the way things are ...